“Let the dead
bury their own dead; but as for you, go and proclaim everywhere the kingdom of
God” (Luke 9:60).
The request, “Lord,
permit me first to go and bury my father,” seems reasonable. Is this not a duty
of a child, to ensure that a parent has a proper burial? What kind of son would
leave his parent unburied? What child would not be with his or her family at
the funeral of a father or mother, sharing their grief and giving comfort?
Yet Jesus says, “Let
the dead bury the dead.”
Why would anyone
follow Jesus after hearing these words?
“But as for you,
go and proclaim everywhere the kingdom of God.”
Not only is this
person not to bury his father, but he is to go and proclaim Good News. This man
doesn’t get a day or two or a week to grieve, to work through his sorrow – he is
to go and proclaim the kingdom of God.
What will his
neighbors think? His family?
“Where is Isaac?
Why isn’t he here to bury his father, to grieve with us?”
“Isaac is out
telling people about Jesus and the kingdom of God.”
“Really? What
kind of man is this Jesus, that He would not want His disciple to bury his
father? What kind of rabbi is this Jesus, not to tell his follower to have his
priorities straight? Doesn’t Moses command us to honor our father and mother? Is
not Isaac’s failure to bury his father a breaking of this commandment?”
Could it be that
Jesus’ idea of family is not our idea of family?
“A crowd was
sitting around Him, and they said to Him, ‘Behold, Your mother and Your
brothers are outside looking for You.’ Answering them, He said, ‘Who are My
mother and My brothers?’ Looking about at those who were sitting around Him, He
said, ‘Behold My mother and My brothers! For whoever does the will of God, he
is My brother and sister and mother.’”
Then we have
Matthew 10:34 – 39:
“Do not think
that I came to bring peace on earth; I did not come to bring peace, but a sword.
For I came to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother,
and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law; and a man’s enemies will be
the members of his household. He who loves father or mother more than Me is not
worthy of Me; and he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of
Me. And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me.
He who has found his life will lose it, and he who has lost his life for My
sake will find it.”
And then Luke
21:16 – 17, “But you will be betrayed even by parents and brothers and
relatives and friends, and they will put some of you to death, and you will be
hated by all because of My name.”
See also Luke 18:28
– 30.
As we ponder
these passages, one thing we must not do is water them down, we must not blunt
the sword or dull the scalpel – we must submit to them and allow the Word of
God to do its work within us. It is far better to say, “I just don’t understand
this,” and spend a lifetime working through what Jesus says, than to make the Word
of Jesus mush, gruel that can’t be eaten, or cotton candy that will rot our
teeth.
These passages
are a matter of the heart. The mind will explain the passages away, the heart
will have to wrestle with them, to submit to them, to cry, “Not my will, but
Your will be done!”
It would not
surprise me if we never have closure on these passages; we may pretend to have
closure, we may pretend that we fully understand and embrace them, but I really
wonder if we can ever finish the wrestling match. Our tendency is to explain
them away, to superimpose our commonsense interpretations, to lessen their
challenge and bite, to avoid them – after all, they are not attractive, they
are not winsome, they are not calculated to win friends and influence people.
Somewhere Oswald
Chambers wrote that we often tell God that He does not know what our obedience
will cost others, that He does not know what our obedience will cost our family
and friends. Do we not tell God that we must wait for a better time to obey His
call of the Cross? Do we not tell God that since others will not understand,
that we must either wait or must modify His Word of obedience to us? Do we not edit
the Word of God so that it is palatable to us and do we not make the Word conform
to us, rather than conform our lives to the Word? Do we not insist that the
Bible submit to us, rather than submit ourselves to the Bible?
How do these
passages challenge you?
We’ll return to
this in our next reflection in the series, the Lord willing…