One of the blessings I’ve
enjoyed the past few years is working with Gloria Jacobs. I first met Gloria in
the early 1990s when we were both involved in our industry’s state trade
association. I always considered Gloria “Ms. Drucker & Falk”, the firm she
was with for 35 years and the firm I’ve been with for almost 6 years. While
Gloria has been “retired” for over a year now, we still keep in touch for we
were more than business associates, we are
friends. There are many reasons I’m thankful for Gloria, and one of them is
that, as friends, we can talk about life, not just business – which is now
behind us – but life; there is nothing quite like sharing the essentials of
life with friends.
A few days ago Gloria wrote
the following to me and when I asked for her permission to post it on a blog
she gave it – it’s a story worth telling.
Good evening Bob.
There is a story I want to
share with you tonight. You asked if we had a good Christmas, but I want
to share something that happened 50 years ago on Christmas Eve in
Pennsylvania. Jake's dad had suffered a heart attack and we were at the
hospital when a blizzard began. We left the hospital to return to my mother's
home about 20 miles away. It took us about two hours to get home.
Roads and conditions were terrible. When we arrived home, thankful to be
there, my mother met us with two suitcases and told us that Jake's dad had
passed away. She knew we would want to get to Jake’s mother, who was at
her home, as soon as possible since she was alone.
We left my mother's home and
tried many roads to get to his mother's, only to turn around and try another
route. We even ran into a snow plow driver and told him what had
happened. He told us if he believed everyone he wouldn't get home that
night so he refused to help us. After many hours in vain of trying to get
to her, we ended up on a country road and our car went into a snow drift.
This was before cell phones and it was already some three hours after we left
my mother's home. We left the car and carted our suitcases and found a
telephone booth. We called the State Police to see if they could assist
and were told that nothing was moving. Fortunately, Jake was involved
with a Boy Scout Explorer Post (older teenagers) and one of them lived within
three miles of where we were. Jake called them and they told us to get to
them as soon as we could.
We walked those three miles
in snow that was to our knees in a blinding snow storm. It was the first
time in my life that I actually laid down in the snow after walking about two
miles and felt warmth like I had never felt before. Jake forced me to get
up and continue the walk with him. When we finally arrived at the home of
the Boy Scout parents they were waiting for us with blankets and warm
food. We felt good to be safe, but felt we had ruined their
Christmas. We told them we would try to keep quiet until after they
celebrated Christmas. We were able to contact his mother and mine to tell
them where we were.
The next morning we slept
late as we were both exhausted. When we entered their kitchen food was
waiting as well as information about our vehicle. They had alerted all of
the Explorer Post’s teens to what had happened. They not only had dug out
our vehicle, but had plowed the road in the neighborhood, and our car was
waiting outside the home we were staying in. They did this during
the early morning hours of Christmas Day. We were able to get to
his mother that morning.
I've never shared this story
with anyone before, but for some reason felt I needed to tonight with a dear
friend. It has been 50 years and I can still remember almost every
detail. GOD is Great and he certainly was with us that night.
Also, my mother passed away on December 27th many years ago, so you see
Christmas has different meanings to us, but we believe that my mother and
Jake's dad are in HIS loving care. We certainly believe HE was
watching over us that Christmas Eve.
Thank
you for being my friend, Bob.
g