During the early hours of Monday,
November 26, 2018, Gloria Jacobs, my dear friend, went to be with Jesus. This
is a great loss to Vickie and me. While I have known Gloria since around 1989
or 1990, during the past seven years Gloria and I became exceptionally close as
business colleagues and friends – as I reflect back on this, when I
began working with her in 2011 we became instant friends – it was as if we had
a shared history and already knew each other.
Gloria touched hundreds, if not
thousands, of lives. The tears that were shed when news of her passing was
relayed were many and they are still flowing.
Her relationship with Jesus
Christ entered a new depth after her retirement; she read the Bible through and
then said to me, “Why did I wait so long to do this?” Then she started to read
it through again. While we worked together (we had adjacent offices) we had
many times of prayer. These times continued during her retirement, and then
mine, over the phone. I used to talk to her at least once a week; usually
calling her after my Tuesday- morning men’s group. This past Tuesday felt
different with no Gloria to call.
Gloria was always looking out for
the disenfranchised, the people without a voice. She cared for her employees
deeply, and while holding them accountable was kind and generous. If you worked
for Gloria you were pretty much adopted into her family.
Gloria had the ability to
interact with wealthy clients, and to politely but firmly ask drug dealers to
move their business off her properties. She had properties in some of the most
dangerous areas of Richmond; the good people were glad to see her and the bad
people gave her room and moved away from her.
There is so much more I could
say, some of which I’ll share at her memorial service this Saturday. She loved
her husband Jake and daughter Susan, and was devoted to them. I am blessed that
she also loved Vickie and me and that she adopted us into her family.
As you view the photo, Gloria is on my left, Deb Eure on my right. This was taken at my retirement luncheon about a year ago. Both of these women have had a powerful impact on my life - all three of us love Jesus.