Our Father

 

 

“But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion for him, and ran and embraced him and kissed him…. The father said, “This son of mine was dead and has come to life again; he was lost and has been found.” (Luke 15:20, 24).

 

I have a friend who, like some of us, had a problematic relationship with his dad; it was emotionally and psychologically volatile. As a young man my friend had left home and was living in another state, when his life came crashing down on him. Darkness and despair enveloped him, he had no hope, no where to turn, no refuge, no safe place. What to do? Where to go?

 

He called his father.

 

When his father heard the anguish in his son’s voice he simply said, “Come home son.”

 

Every mile my friend drove on his return to his dad was a mile closer to acceptance, to love, to a safe place; every mile brought him closer to his Daddy.

 

In the story that we term The Prodigal Son, one of the great stories in humanity, indeed, in the universe, the father sees the son a long way off and runs to him, embraces him – holding him tight! – and kisses him. I imagine tears of joy and relief were shed by both the father and the son.

 

Do you think that after the grand celebration, as morning dawned the following day, that the father said to the son, “Now son, before we have breakfast, we need to talk about the past few years and the way you’ve lived”?

 

Do you think that on each following day, for the rest of their lives, that the father said to the son, “Now son, before we do anything else today, we need to talk about the time you took your inheritance and wasted it, the time you rejected me and our family, the time you squandered your life”?

 

Do you think that the father treated his son like a servant? Like an outcast? Do you think that each day the son had to earn his father’s love and trust? Do you think that the son could never measure up to the father’s expectations and that the father continually reminded the son of his failures?

 

Do you think that if the son needed anything, money, clothing, food, that he had to beg and plead with his father?

 

Is this the kind of father that Jesus portrays in this story?

 

Is this the kind of father that Jesus portrays to us in His own life and teaching?

 

“As high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is His lovingkindness toward those who reverence Him. As far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions from us. Just as a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who reverence Him” (Psalm 103:11 – 13).

 

The Bible teaches us that we are the sons and daughters of God in Jesus Christ; that the very Spirit of our Father lives within us, so that we cry to Him, “Abba (Daddy) Father!” (Rom. 8:15).

 

Consider that our Father made our elder brother, Jesus Christ, “who knew no sin to be sin on our behalf, so that we might become the righteousness of God in Him” (2 Cor. 5:21).

 

Consider that Jesus, in dying on the Cross and rising from the dead, did so in order to proclaim the Name (Nature) of the Father to us, His sisters and brothers (Heb. 2:12; Psalm 22:22).

 

Do we really think that such a Father has any desire to remind us, again and again and again, of our time away from Him, our time in the hog pen, our time in a far country? Such a nature, such behavior, would trample on His love and the sacrifice of Jesus, it would make caricatures of them – there would be no good news in the Gospel, it would be just another “bait and switch” religion.

 

Allow your Father to hold you tight today, allow Him to speak to you and to reassure you that you are His daughter, you are His son. Allow Him to bring you back home into the House to which you have always belonged, into the Family in which you will live eternally.

 

You are no longer a stranger, no longer a sinner, no longer an outcast – you are a daughter and a son of the Living God, made pure and holy in Jesus Christ, a saint (holy one), and an heir of God and a coheir with Jesus Christ (Rom. 8:14 – 25).

 

Who will separate us from the love of Christ?...I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Rom. 8:35, 38 – 39).

 

Can you hear your Father saying, “Come home”?