Friday, August 29, 2025

Tolstoy’s Three Questions – Reflections (7)

  

Let’s read the king’s questions and the hermit’s answers once again. Did the Hermit answer all the questions?

 

“It once occurred to a certain king, that if he always knew the right time to begin everything; if he knew who were the right people to listen to, and whom to avoid; and, above all, if he always knew what was the most important thing to do, he would never fail in anything he might undertake.”

 

 

“Remember then: there is only one time that is important— Now! It is the most important time because it is the only time when we have any power. The most necessary man is he with whom you are, for no man knows whether he will ever have dealings with anyone else: and the most important affair is, to do him good, because for that purpose alone was man sent into this life!”

 

The hermit did not tell the king whom to avoid.  How might we think about this question?

 

There are times we are with people, or have the opportunity to be with people, who we either ought to avoid or at least be careful with. Yes, we ought to endeavor to serve all men, to do good to all men, to share Jesus with all men (Mt. 5:43 – 48; Gal. 6:10), but there are times when we need to be careful lest we drink from cups of poison for our souls.  Jesus counsels us to be wise as serpents and harmless as doves.

 

“Do not associate with a man given to anger; or go with a hot – tempered man, or you will learn his ways and find a snare for yourself” (Proverbs 22:24 – 25; please also see James 3:13 – 18 and Psalm 1).

 

In a society fueled by anger and fear and anxiety, do we endeavor to respond to Christ’s calling to be peacemakers (Mt. 5:9)? Do we keep in mind James’s distinction between demonic wisdom and the gentleness of godly wisdom? Are we careful not to align ourselves with people and movements whose spirit is contrary to the Spirit of the Lamb who gives His life all the people of the earth?  

 

Psalm 1 (which ought to be our Way of Life in Christ, for Jesus is “the Way of the Righteous” (Ps. 1:6), warns us that we ought not to “walk in the counsel of the wicked…nor sit in the seat of scoffers.” Scoffing and sarcasm and vitriol, poison our souls, and when we associate with people who promote this way of life that is contrary to Jesus, it will affect us. This includes “electronic and social media association,” that which our eyes and ears invite into our temples.

 

We ought to avoid such people.

 

On the other side of the spectrum are those who seek to seduce us as “apostles of Christ and angels of light” (2 Cor. 11:13 – 14). These people want us to feel good, to think positive thoughts, to get better and better, to never make a judgment call about sin or righteousness, and above all else, they want us to avoid the Cross.

 

These folks are every bit as dangerous as the angry people because their teaching is so positive and non-threatening, they are like Peter telling Jesus that He ought not to go to the Cross (Matthew 16:21 – 23).

 

I once lived in a city in which there was an annual event at the convention center featuring a traveling group of positive-thinking speakers, some of whom were professing Christians. I always cringed when this group came to town because friends and acquaintances would get excited about the event, attend, and invite others. These men and women were very good speakers, they were witty, they were funny, and they had good moral and ethical and motivational stories and lessons. However, what they were presenting was not the Gospel, it was cotton candy coated with Christian jargon and allusion. I have seen this phenomenon many times in many places throughout the years. The idea seems to be that if it has Christian overtones, or if it has an overt Christian tag, and if it feels good and is motivational, then it must be Biblical.

 

This is dangerous, anything that is not centered in the Christ of the Cross and the Cross of Christ is dangerous – for in Christ alone is our source of Light and Life, in the Cross alone is our hope and our Way of Life.  

 

The Scriptures teach us that our minds are renewed as we present ourselves to God as living and holy sacrifices, not as we seek self-preservation or pursue a form of positive thinking (Rom. 12:1 – 2).

 

Consider Paul’s words to the Philippians, “Whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, dwell on these things” (Phil. 4:8).

 

If we didn’t know any better we’d think Paul was preaching positive thinking, but since we do know better we recognize that the context of his exhortation is the Christ of the Cross, for in 3:3 he writes that we worship God in Spirit, glory in Christ Jesus, and put no confidence in the flesh. In 3:10 he writes of knowing Christ in the koinonia of His sufferings. The theme of Philippians can be expressed as joyfully knowing Jesus Christ as we share in His sufferings for His glory and the blessing of others.

 

Our thought lives are to glorify God and be a blessing to others, not to make us feel better for the sake of feeling better.

 

Perhaps another way of putting the above, is that we look for Jesus Christ, always Jesus Christ and His Cross. We focus on Him and on others knowing Him. We avoid those who are not centered in the Cross, on the Cross, and living through the Cross.

 

As Paul wrote, “May it never be that I would boast, except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ” (Gal. 6:14).

 

Can you think of other people and ways of thinking that ought to be avoided?

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